I love runners.

Yes, the physical benefits are often what get us out the door and onto the pavement, trails, tracks, treadmills, or gravel roads. But running is about so much more than fitness. Many of us are carrying something. Running becomes a place to put all the things we don’t quite know what to do with—the grief, the doubt, the anxiety, the heartbreak, the trauma, and everything in between.

It doesn’t magically make those things disappear, and it certainly doesn’t solve every problem. What it does teach you is something far more powerful: that you can keep moving forward while carrying them. One step at a time, one mile at a time, running reminds us that strength isn’t about having no burdens. It’s about learning how to keep going, even when they’re still there.

For me, running and mental health really go hand in hand. Running taught me how to be less of a people pleaser because it teaches you to sit with and work through uncomfortable emotions. As a mom of two boys who worked through several career changes, running has always been a way to get back to myself and process my thoughts and emotions. The mental strength and grit that a marathon requires is truly astounding and doesn’t get nearly enough emphasis as the physical part of running does.

I have been running for a little over a decade. I used running to work through postpartum depression when my second child was born and through that process, I fell in love with the whole mind-body connection that running gives you. I started with short distances, then got into 5ks and 10ks, ran my first half marathon just a few years ago and then promised myself I’d never do a full marathon (because the half marathon was SO hard!). You know that nagging feeling about something that you just can’t shake? That was me…and last year I changed my mind and ran my first full marathon locally.
I worked with an amazing running coach for five months and did not miss a single workout during that time. Miles 22 – 26 of a marathon are so hard and I think that’s where most people learn how to mentally push through the discomfort. I promised myself again during those miles that I was done with running marathons, then changed my mind about 10 seconds after crossing the finish line. Learning how to sit and process your emotions in a healthy way is truly a priceless gift and I have my running journey to thank for that.
I’m currently training for the Chicago Marathon, running on behalf of Strong Girls United and would love your support! Always here to chat if you want to learn more.

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